This website is for adults only. It is not for prudish people with too many preconceived notions. It is not for the faint of heart. Don’t feel awkward asking the people you love for the sex acts you really want. Catch them off guard. Say it bluntly. Chew on a cucumber and nonchalantly ask for all of the most beautifully disgusting things you’ve been thinking. But do it, because it’ll be one of the most honest decisions you’ve ever made. And it will change your entire relationship.

All forms of sex have their sticky attractions. The sooner you’re comfortable with talking about all your darkest desires, the better. If you don’t say what’s on your mind, you may as well be lying to your partner. You may as well be impotent.

That’s why you should warm up and tell the person you love that you want to watch porn videos while having sex with him or her. It’s the best form of foreplay. Watch two men simultaneously penetrate the same woman, all while you cuddle under the sheets. Watch horny couples act the way you used to before you were married. Or visit any number of pornographic websites to find out how to do something that isn’t in your sexual repertoire.

Sex is one of life’s great truths. What else is a sex act if not approval? The glands warming up. The increased heart rate. The blood pumping in all the right places. It’s not an act you can lie about. Your very molecules tell the truth about what you are doing. To transport it to a whole new dimension, try mixing sex with your porn-watching fantasies. Sex should not be at odds with all of your other ambitions. Let your loved one in on your most inner thoughts.